I fell in love
with Bandon, Oregon, in 1996 when I rode Big Red up the Oregon Coast on our
first long-distance solo ride. That small town captivated me from the beginning
with its comfortable, homey atmosphere, the breathtaking beach views, and the welcoming
Coquille River Lighthouse.
For two nights, I
stayed at the hostel, steps away from the marina where colorful new and aging boats
drifted in the breeze. An easy stroll through Old Town Bandon along Front
Street, past sea-weathered buildings took me out to the South Jetty by way of a
narrow road lined with tall grasses. That’s when I first spotted the
lighthouse. I was drawn to that red-roofed building, which stood across the
river at the gateway to the ocean. The Light was a beacon for me, calling me into a calm,
healing place.
Three years
later, I was finishing a Masters in Counseling in Bakersfield. As I prepared
for a grueling six-hour written exam, my friend Valerie gave me a piece of
advice. “Take a photo of someplace that’s soothing along with you. Set it up
where you can look at it occasionally.”
The morning of
the exam, I pulled out a photo of the Bandon lighthouse and propped it up
against my briefcase. Every now and then, taking deep breaths and massaging my
writing hand, I stepped inside that picture. The feel of the ocean breeze and
the lap of the water came back to me, and I could almost smell the sea air. Though
the immediate situation was stressful, I felt refreshed and calm.
Since making the
Oregon Coast my summer residence, I’ve eagerly returned to Bandon several times
each year. We love to walk on the beach, and it's one of the coastal gems that we show off to first-time
visitors. Sure, there have been some changes over time, but for me, the feel of
this town, the lure of the beach, and the beckoning of the lighthouse have
remained constant.
What spot away
from home holds a special place in your heart?
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xoA ~
Loved this, Annis. Congratulations on the Jack London award. I am so impressed and happy for you. Also loved your post about where you were in '63. I,too, thought much about that last week as I watched the televised documentaries of the March on Washington, MLK's speech and thought deeply about the influence of that time on my life.
ReplyDeleteKeep up the good writing. You inspire me.
Sher
Sher, thanks for your kind comments, Those days certainly influenced who we are today. We've seen a lot of changes on our lifetimes. xoA
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